Brothers, 2 years apart, almost to the day. As you can imagine, there are rough and tumble moments, shouting matches, and the like. It’s normal. But, what is a normal reaction to it? Shouting amidst the chaos? It falls on deaf ears. It frustrates and angers everyone even more. We’re taking a new approach, and I feel a new calm over our family that hasn’t ever been there. I won’t lie and say it’s always easy, or I never raise my voice. It happens, more often than I’d like. But when I see Noel taking on leadership roles in a positive way, Lennon being a receptive listener, and them interacting with kindness, I am thankful. I’m reassured. I know we’re headed in the right direction.